Tonight I went out to hang with some great friends. It wasn't that far away from where I live. A 10 to 15 minute drive which would actually be shorter if I didn't have to go through a state park along the way. I decided that I wasn't going to drink tonight like I did last week.I got pretty ripped last week. Let's just say 4 over my limit of 2. Not drinking tonight turned out to be a good decision on my part. I hate the drive back home and don't like to stay at friend's too well.(Nothing personal guys, I'm just antisocial that way)
I arrived at 7:00 pm at a friend of mine's bar and grill. A nice small place where the whole family can dine and a person of age can drink a beer or two. They had a band playing tonight. A well known local band of whom I know really well. Very talented people. Then at close to closing time and all of the under agers out of the building it becomes a "private party". Doors are locked and it's on, let the fun begin.
So, not drinking, I ordered a cup of coffee and wound up drinking at least 2 and a half pots on my own. Of coarse having to pee every 20 min or so to get rid of the previous 4 cups that my bladder would be holding. By the time I left there it was 1:00am. Now, I'm thinking that hanging out with my great friends (whom I love very much) I have some how absorbed their alcohol into my skin or vapors through my nose. I can't explain it but everytime I hang out with someone that drinks I seem to get their hangover.
What is this? I feel like maybe if I would have drank a couple of beers that I would have gotten this feeling for a good cause. HMMM.... I don't know? I don't think that I have ever met anyone else that doesn't drink on a normal basis that gets "hangover like" feelings. The worst thing is is that I know I will feel worse in the morning whan I wake up. I call these sober hangovers or "sympathy" hangovers.
Like I said, I love my friends and wouldn't change them for the world. I would do almost anything for them but this hangover crap is for the birds. How do they do it? I wonder. How do they drink several beers or liquor or whatever and not feel like crapolla the next day or next 2 days for that matter?
Well, it's not going to stop me from hanging out with them for sure. I always have such a great time when I'm around them and being sober is actually a form of entertainment for me. I will continue on my quest to understand this type of "brain fog, sluggish, head ache feeling and until I do I'm gonna keep on doing what I do. Love you guys and you know who you are.....
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Thursday, February 18, 2010
A Night Out
Lastnight I decided to get away from my computer for a while and socialize. I went to a bar and grille that I used to play at a few towns over. I don't miss the drive there two or three nights a week. It was great to see some good friends that still hang out there and catch up on what's been going on their life. It's amazing how some people will open up and just tell you things about themselves that probably should be left unsaid.
I'm really a private person and my "personal" life is something that I very rarely discuss with anyone, even after a few drinks. All in all, this place has not really changed much. It's friendly atmosephere was amplified with the fireplace roaring and patrons sitting aroud gossiping by the fire. It does make me wonder how safe can a bar be with an open fireplace though.
I was invited to jam with my old band mates as they were there trying to make it through a Wednesday night after playing a show for Fat Tuesday the night before. Very talented musicians stuck out in the middle of no where thirty miles from Nashville. (Figure that one out)
Back to the privacy issue. How do some people just airout their laundry to people that they really don't know too well? I would say that this is a typical thing for a bar but I really wouldn't know. I'm not a big drinker and don't hang out in bars unless I'm playing a show or being a designated driver for some of my friends that do want to go out.
These people will tell you how many girlfriends that they have and who they are cheating on, what drugs they are overly taking, how they are in trouble with not paying their taxes, who is stealing money from who,who is not paying their rent,who is milking the government on child support, what happened on the bar the night before with so and so, etc. I mean really, people, I just came out to see how some of my friends were doing becase I haven't seen them in a while and enjoy the band and a beer.
So, I think that from that one visit lastnight, I have learned what has been going on in the four surrounding counties.With that said, I actually had an entertaining night on a very small town.
In final thought: People, there needs to be a little bit of privacy in your lives or you can continue to discuss you whole life's issues and give me and probably someone else something to write about.
Peace, deduck3
I'm really a private person and my "personal" life is something that I very rarely discuss with anyone, even after a few drinks. All in all, this place has not really changed much. It's friendly atmosephere was amplified with the fireplace roaring and patrons sitting aroud gossiping by the fire. It does make me wonder how safe can a bar be with an open fireplace though.
I was invited to jam with my old band mates as they were there trying to make it through a Wednesday night after playing a show for Fat Tuesday the night before. Very talented musicians stuck out in the middle of no where thirty miles from Nashville. (Figure that one out)
Back to the privacy issue. How do some people just airout their laundry to people that they really don't know too well? I would say that this is a typical thing for a bar but I really wouldn't know. I'm not a big drinker and don't hang out in bars unless I'm playing a show or being a designated driver for some of my friends that do want to go out.
These people will tell you how many girlfriends that they have and who they are cheating on, what drugs they are overly taking, how they are in trouble with not paying their taxes, who is stealing money from who,who is not paying their rent,who is milking the government on child support, what happened on the bar the night before with so and so, etc. I mean really, people, I just came out to see how some of my friends were doing becase I haven't seen them in a while and enjoy the band and a beer.
So, I think that from that one visit lastnight, I have learned what has been going on in the four surrounding counties.With that said, I actually had an entertaining night on a very small town.
In final thought: People, there needs to be a little bit of privacy in your lives or you can continue to discuss you whole life's issues and give me and probably someone else something to write about.
Peace, deduck3
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Just Me
I don't have much to say today. I just started this blogging thing and I'm going to try to keep a journal of my everyday life. I have become an internet junkie, as it's called. Wow, another addiction to go with my coffee and smokes.
So, I have come up with this idea that has been floating around in my brain for a few days and I'm still trying to put all of it together. I will explain on that some other time when I get the whole jist of it in order.
I have been keeping up with some of the Olympics but not on a regular basis. I usually have the television on but the volume on mute. The TV Guide channel seems to be the most interesting thing that is usually on. I just watch what will be coming on when I glance at it. When you have no access to television is when you really want to see what is on but when you do have it's availabilty, nothing is ever on worth watching.
I'm bothered by the whole Haiti relief that's been going on. I feel deeply saddened that these people have lost thier homes and their whole lives have been destroyed and uprooted. I just don't understand why it takes a disaster and some celebreties to make people want to all of a sudden "care". There are so many countries (including our own) that need help yet most people turn away or don't see it.
Anyways, I will return tomorrow or maybe later and write some more.
deduck3
So, I have come up with this idea that has been floating around in my brain for a few days and I'm still trying to put all of it together. I will explain on that some other time when I get the whole jist of it in order.
I have been keeping up with some of the Olympics but not on a regular basis. I usually have the television on but the volume on mute. The TV Guide channel seems to be the most interesting thing that is usually on. I just watch what will be coming on when I glance at it. When you have no access to television is when you really want to see what is on but when you do have it's availabilty, nothing is ever on worth watching.
I'm bothered by the whole Haiti relief that's been going on. I feel deeply saddened that these people have lost thier homes and their whole lives have been destroyed and uprooted. I just don't understand why it takes a disaster and some celebreties to make people want to all of a sudden "care". There are so many countries (including our own) that need help yet most people turn away or don't see it.
Anyways, I will return tomorrow or maybe later and write some more.
deduck3
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